The Effects of Parental Alienation

Parental Alienation is a strategy where one parent intentionally attempts to turn a child against their other parent and to damage the child’s relationship with their other parent. In extreme cases, through psychological manipulation and other alienation tactics, the alienating parent essentially programs the child to unjustifiably fear, disrespect, or otherwise harbor negativity toward the alienated parent.

The effects of parental alienation on children can be devastating and can last a lifetime. These effects can include lack of impulse control, aggression, loss of self-respect and self-esteem, impaired ability to establish and maintain healthy relationships with others, depression, substance abuse, and anxiety. In addition to emotional and psychological effects, children who experience parental alienation can grow into adults with significant challenges in their interpersonal relationships and can struggle to form healthy relationships with their own children.

Parental Alienation blurs the lines between reality and the false narrative created by the alienating parent, and it can be difficult for the court to determine what is and is not true about the family dynamics. In extreme cases, even when alienation is identified by the court, it can be difficult to craft a custody order that will remedy the issue without causing further psychological damage to the child. It is important that alienation be addressed early and before the alienated parent’s relationship with the child is damaged beyond repair.

If your child is being alienated against you, we can be of help. Call Fastman Family Law, LLC at 610-222-5930.